QUOTE (DieguZ @ Jun 16 2006, 01:10 PM)
p.s. sorry if I confuse you all, but english is not my main language.
No apology necessary. You're doing MUCH better than I could do if the situation were reversed!
OK...I understand your problem now. I tried to change the settings on my phone like I suggested to you earlier but apparently it has to be done with a phone call to customer service. Each time I'd uncheck it so it wouldn't use voicemail it wouldn't stick. I called myself and it went to voicemail and when I went back into the settings it was checked again. So, I can't test it.
This seems to me where the change should be made though. If you could change the no reply, busy, and/or unavailable settings to not go to voicemail it seems like the phone should continue to ring until you had a chance to re-open your phone and take the call. Or, if you didn't do that the phone call would just ring however many times the phone company lets it ring - or until the caller gave up.
I wonder if there is a registry edit to "disconnect" the voicemail since it won't "stick" going at it through the menu (at least on my phone (rom Asian 3.45) with my carrier (Cingular))? If not, the only choice I see is to call your service provider and disconnect voicemail. But, ask if it can just be for one of the scenarios not all. Like can you turn off voicemail when the phone is unavailable (presumable this is the "rejected" mode the phone is in when the flip is in the process of closing) but leave it functioning for busy (when you actually are on a call) and no reply (when you don't answer 'cuz your phone is off or out of reach)? Or, whatever way makes sense for your particular problem.
I can't think of anything else other than maybe an "active flip" style phone isn't for you since you get so many calls at the same time. When I read what you described I immediately wondered if a flat style phone would be better where you would just "hang up" from one call and be immediately ready to receive your next? That's all I got. Sorry. Maybe someone else knows something more helpful.
Good luck!